Scylla yes ive done 180"s went dark done everything nothing works. She just says she doesn't feel about me like she should her husband. She even told my buddy last weekend to find me a woman but in the next breath ask where i was he told her the beach and she said who is he at the beach with.
I've been separated before and did the 180 and it does work. But it is works differently for every couple. Some take longer than others. Every person doing the 180 has the same goal, to better themselves first and then the marriage if possible.
Scylla is correct
"If your W didn't care she wouldn't ask questions about who you're with or where you are"
At least there is small part of her that still cares. My H couldn't care less, and can't wait for me to move out and move on. So he can be "happier"
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011
