After what? After After!

[ninelives]

Sorry to hear you going through this Country. You are driving yourself nuts trying to read every thought. I know, we all do that but I think its counterproductive and only drains your energy.

Im really trying to just let things happen with NO expectations. Of course your Sitch has changed but I dontl believe she is going to make any decisions right now. She delay the D proceedings or she may carry on.

All Im saying Country is what was working for you was being semi detached and being there for her. And you have to continue that.

I made so many mistakes when my W's mom died in March. I let the anxiety get the better of me and screwed things up. I got upset when she said OM was such a comfort to her.

I dont see that from your thread, Just be there for her and put EVERYTHING else on the back burner. She does need you right now and even if you dont R, you can hold your head high and know you were a great comfort when she needed you most.

Hang in there Buddy.

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