We've all been there. Others try to warn us, but we love our wives and we have blinders on. I did see where others tried to warn you -- repeatedly -- on your old threads, but that's water over the dam now.
As an old friend of mine once said, "If you're not ready, you're not ready . . . and then you are." [b] Wayward men are typically less organized in their plans. Usually, by the time a wife walks away -- whether or not there's infidelity involved -- they've been emotionally checked out from the marriage, and actively planning their exit from it, for months or even YEARS. It's why they are typically harder to draw back.[/b]
Starsky
As a L, the complete opposite has been my experience financially speaking. Men are statistically far more financially prepared and usually have money set aside. Few women do that. Emotionally? I don't have empirical research that suggests either way. But then, do you? No. What I really want to say is simply
Don't let your w's behavior color your views of all women, please.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
