I agree, I too never looked better in my life. Well, H started exercising and being conscious of his age due to the MLC I guess (and of course with a young OW he was trying to impress), and I followed suit. The grief diet really gets you though....even if I wanted to eat then I could not! I remember the first time I started tasting food again (around 3 months after the bomb, during my b-day)was when I realized that I was getting my will to live back again.
At present, with the grace of God, we are starting to get closer again, and H has decided he is going to try to stick with our M somehow...I pray he won't change his mind and that someday we will work it all out....our appetites has come back full force and we both gained a few pounds....
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go