sorry about that. But the L is not saying marrying OM will happen.
We L's are just trained to be paranoid and think of worst case scenarios...(Denver proves that all the time... ;))
I think you are doing well and this isn't anything more than a reality check for both of you. I am interested in seeing if the death of her father pushes her & which way, or if she freezes up and stalls out.
You being the pillar that you are, will no doubt help you in the short and long run. I really think she's going to regret this within 18 months. But I don't know what she'll do with that regret. That's why you have to keep the road home, paved and smooth...
(not to be confused with doormat stuff, but you know that already). Remember - be a man only a fool would leave.
Your behavior thru this past week, is exhibit A of what that looks like. Well done.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
