From where I'm sitting, and based on what GB has written, he has little to apologize for at this point.
I don't know your w's age. You've been m a few years so your w is not a teenager. But the insults and irrational anger is, at best, adolescent. Anger about the bike, mocking the yoga, insulting the amp you bought...it sounds mean. Why do you pretend it's not? Does she ever actually apologize?
Man, it's Just SOooo not a way to live. You want to be posting this stuff when you are 40 y/o? Sorry but that's all I have.
On 2nd thought, you might want to get some other men's opinions b/c I think YAH has you covered for the unconditional love approach.
You need her respect so perhaps you could seek out robx, gucci, or stevemcqueen. They're men whose w's mistreated them, and their approaches helped them get the respect and love of their w's back. CountrySong and Denver2010 are great too although they are in their own processes. And it Can't hurt to get input from different sources, right? Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
