Today I finally went to the bank and opened a new account in order for me to close the joint account for STBX and I. I have been using that account the whole time we have been separated. Since I expect things to start getting ugly very soon, I now need to make all the required moves to protect myself. In the very near future, I am going to make D19 the beneficiary of my life insurance policy. I know I wouldn't be around to see it, but I would hate to have STBX and OM living the high life on my insurance money.
I am still so angry that I allowed myself to be fooled for almost 10 years, before I became fully aware of STBX's plan for her life and that I almost let her destroy me in the process. I will likely need to be angry for sometime before moving to the next stage. At least being angry is better than missing her.
