The big punch

[Redo]

Thanks 25. Oh definitely i dont take anything my 3 year old does seriously. I know that she has no idea what she is doing. .


Journaling....

Yesterday was good, talking to daughter. I told her that i was coming to see her soon. Wife and i also talked about what candies i should try bringing daughter. It was pleasant.

This morning i saw a missed call from wife @4:30am. Called up ASAP to see if it was an emergency. Wife tells me that daughter woke up crying for me. my cell phone was on vibrate so i did not hear the call. Wife suggested that next time i tell daughter the day before i come over. Not sure how thats gonna help, but i said i'd comply. Then we talked for about 5 mins, almost at the edges of the R talk. Wife told me all her plans for daughter when she grows up. How she wanted to make sure that daughter would grow up stable and that is why she wanted sole custody. The last part of the justification sounded lame. I said that i too wanted the same, except that i wanted us to share equal custody. Then wife went to saying how she was not trying to alienate daughter from me. I dunno, but this time the convo did not feel as overbearing. Might be time is slowly working its magic. Wife also went on to tell me how no one in her family is allowed to talk to her about the marriage (because they all oppose the D). She said that she was trying to protect me from her family, saying that she told them that she did not want to talk bad about me. The last part sounded very manipulative. Because if she did tell the truth out to them about why she is ditching the marriage (my depression), they are gonna flip out that she has gone crazy. In indian community, usually no one leaves a marriage for these reasons. So when she said this, i told her that i think she should tell her family her reasons. Not that she would listen.

It was mixed feeling after that convo. After her crazy rant a week back, this was good.