DG, it sounds like you are describing unconditional love. Good for you. I have not made it as far as you apparently have. Someday maybe I will.
I have seen “Unconditional love is hard to resist” posted many times. Give him a chance to work on himself, while you keep getting stronger working on yourself.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill