Forgive me. I am not making fun of your situation in the least, but what you said made me think, how pathetic is that, putting your face on a dating website when you are still married just to see if anyone out there finds you the least bit attractive? Too bad you aren't able to hack in and change his status. If you find a way, I'll be glad to write it for you. Hehehe (my evil laugh)
Glad you have the option/opportunity to get as far away from his craziness as possible. It sounds like just the opportunity so many here would have benefited from. I, too, was lucky in that my XH was stationed in another place, so I didn't have to see him much at all.
Sounds to me like you are on the right track girl. Good luck.
