I just sent my W the following email:

"I just wanted to ask again if you feel that the kids having 15% time access with me is best for them.

Personally, from everything that I understand from "for the sake of the children" and other resources, the kids need to spend as much time as possible, balanced between both parents in order to have the least negative affect on them.

Please explain to me why you feel your current position around how often the kids get to see me is good for them.

Thanks,

Me
"