Thanks Alamo, 2Step , SF. Yup, i am finding myself being affected by her words and actions. I am getting better at decoupling myself, but need to do more. I guess there are good days and bad days for me still..
Right now i have no intention of telling or suggesting my wife to read anything. She will just say 'no'. As 2Step and 25 said it, i'll just have to let time and life take its course. All i have to do is cultivate patience right now.
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