I had a lot of thoughts in my head regarding this.

I have simply responded to my W's email as follows:

"I don't know what changed. I thought that we had decided to split next weekend.

All I want is what's best for the kids. If you believe this will be best for the kids, then I will do whatever you ask.

I cannot do anything else.

Me
".

However I will be judged here by my action or apparent inaction. The damage is done. I am very sad for my kids. I can make this high conflict and create even more turmoil for the kids. Or I can do everything I can to make this the least damaging for my kids. I cannot control her and any attempts to do so simply escalate the damage.

I can only be the best dad I can be for my kids and I will be that.