It's only over when you choose/decide that. Fact is that because you have a child and are connected that way your relationship will never truly be over. Have you borrowed/bought and read Divorce Remedy? Have you engaged a Divorce Busting counsellor? Maybe there is something else you can try.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.