One thing I have learned through this process is everyone has their own opinions on our sitch. I've also learned to appreciate, yet politely ignore those opinions. It all comes down to W being so deeply influenced by others, I don't want the same for me. I decided at the beginning of this, I would work towards what I wanted, not what everyone else said I should do. I've had people pushing from both sides.

Ironically, my parents are split. My D says to keep talking, yet my M says this is no way to live. They are both right. In the end, it's up to me to decide what's best for me.

You D is understandably trying to watch out for you. In the end, though, it all comes down to you and H. Do what's right for you both.


"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012