My question for you - what do you want from your wife? What do you want her to do and what is her goal in apologizing? If she is just doing that bs, I don't want you to be mad at me, I want us to be friends, you're probably reacting in the right way. Goes back and forth, doesn't it? A couple months ago that apology would have meant the world. We're all on such a rollercoaster.
I wish I could answer these questions. I'm starting to feel like you and I want some sort of progress in some direction. I'm guessing her reason for apologizing was the bs - the I don't want you to be mad at me, etc. I would like her to simply be honest. I just don't want to waste anymore of my time. I feel like I'm starting to loose myself in this process. GAL is great, but sooner or later, we have to make progress toward or away from our goals to learn the correct path.
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012