Yeah I have a huge list of things to do when I get there. She does too. Moves have always been very stressful for her, and a fight or two is to be expected. Good thing I have also learned a lot about how to handle these fights. Also we are both so excited I think it will mitigate a lot.
As for ml I know we have discussed this before, but she does have some control issues. She has stated in the past that she feels controlled. (although lately I've been feeling like she does all the controlling, just indirectly). Her biggest complaint about sex has always been getting pressured into it by me. All i wanted was to have her and ml. Sex on her terms is a big deal to her. somehow I need to change her misconceptions of what sex means to men and what it should mean to us.
