I understand your concern W, but this couple is NOT YET Divorced and she wants a recon. If they were divorced already, I'd agree that family time is NOT a good idea.

Here's the thing Red, I didn't mean to say you were punishing him. I ASKED you to look within to make sure you were not, partly b/c you are angry and got defensive with him. But hey, If you are GAL and need an evening a week to do at least that, DO IT...regardless of what h thinks/ but that is key.

You are GAL for YOU and you cannot care what h thinks about that, so "prepare to not care" when he decides he is entitled to voice an opinion about what YOU do with your free time... cry

And why must you tell him where you are going or with whom? He has your cell# and can call if there's an emergency. A little mystery would not hurt. cool

hang in there, I see some hope somewhere in that messy pile (I mean, in all that sh#%, there has to be a pony, right??)

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change