Wow. Just wow. Do you have any idea how abusive your actions sound?
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Yesterday before our child s ball game which i coach his team i texted her and told her if she came to the recreation center dressed like she did the week prior i would simply walk up to her and ask her to leave that it embarrassed our son and that if she had no more respect for herself than that to just stay away.
Is she your equal? She IS adult, why does she have to please your sartorial sensibility? Why are you in the middle between her and your son? He should be the one telling her how he feels.
From my POV you're treating her like a teenage delinquent daughter, and yes...controlling.
I am going to post something I posted a while back:
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
