I agree. I need to back off and let him go through what he needs to go through. It wasn't until he explained his reasoning why he feels the way he does it made sense, and I am going to pull back. Way back. I do see now that 3 months isn't enough time for us, I think if we were to reconcile now there would still be a lot of hurt and anger and it would do us more damage then good.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤