Well for those that dont know my stich i have been separated since october from my wife of 13 years we have a 11 year old son. I had an affair but since we reconciled she claims i was controlling and jealous and that she didn't feel about me like she should her husband and separated for a second time. I tried for months to get her to go to counseling to try and make it work with no success she still ran with her 20 year old friends wore provocative clothing to the extent my 11 year old son finally said something to me about it. Well i have been paying her house and car payment for six months while i wasn't staying there and giving her money just so she could survive. Well yesterday i decided to use the tough love approach. She has filed for divorce given up custody of our son to me cause she claims im too powerful for her to fight me. Yesterday before our child s ball game which i coach his team i texted her and told her if she came to the recreation center dressed like she did the week prior i would simply walk up to her and ask her to leave that it embarrassed our son and that if she had no more respect for herself than that to just stay away. The Friday night prior i found out she had been riding around drinking with her friends in a car which is in my name. I texted her and told her she just lost the car cause i have warned her the consequence's of her action and that she needed to find a ride home from the recreation center because i was taking the car away from her. When the game was over she started to the car i approached her and demanded the keys and told her i had already warned her and she need to find a ride home. I took the car from her which she started crying about and told her when she thought she could behave like a 35 year old mother we would talk about her getting it back. I feel awful about it but sometimes this is the only way. Hopefully one day she will come out of the fog she is living in and see the error of her ways. Guess im saying if you let the take an inch they will ruin you. Ok yall bash away!!!
