One of the things I had to learn (patience) was that things go at their own pace, no matter how we want them to proceed. I was convinced last fall that W and I would be back together by xmas. Things generally went forward, and then backward, and here we are still on the tilt-a-whirl.
Hard to hear now, but just because you canceled your reservation for this weekend doesn't mean you won't get back to that place where you are spending the night together after a big outing. It just won't be this weekend. Enjoy the time you do spend together (and assume you will go with her unless you don't... be confident!)
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
