Affair (continued)

[awest1217]

Chris, your W is being extremely generous and is honestly handling this well. Knowing she had issues with A's, you still had one, and she hasn't kicked you out or even said she is going to divorce you.

She is taking time to make the decision she feels is best so give her space. I know the waiting is killer, but you need to give her space. Don't push her because the more you push her to talk, especially right now, the more she is going to say how much she doesn't trust you and how much she doesn't think she can be with you. Do you want to hear those things? She needs time to work through her emotions and feelings towards you so give her that time. OTherwise you might push her into the decision you don't want.