Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
I personally always thought blinking contests past a certain age were pointless. : )

It's Tuesday, you have a few days, it's U2 you can find someone to go 5 minutes prior to needing to leave.

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She responded, 'I don't know. Let's talk about it next week'.


Nothing set in stone about who is to call who about it. The ubiquitous 'us/we'.

She wants space...you contacted her last night. Text, yes but contact none the less.

Give her until tomorrow or Thursday and keep it simple.

No BS guilt. "I guess I'm finding someone else to go to U2 while I play this tiny violin and mope."

"Do you want to go see U2?"

Simple.

No response?

Nothing else is needed.

And remember a big deal for you? Does not have to equate to a big deal to her.


That's what I will do Jack. Thanks.

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W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
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