85 Days

[Denver_2010]

This was your text message:

"Hey! Got your VM. Thanks for the heads up on the computer virus. I hope that your's is okay."

Was she supposed to respond?

No. I didn't word it in a way that required or asked for a response on purpose. I guess I want her to know that she has asked for space, and I am giving it to her ... but without completely ignoring her.

The U2 Concert, this weekend.

While it is BIG BIG BIG in your mind.
Is it in hers?

I don't know, neither do you. You make an assumption here, you make an expectation and you lose.

You made these plans awhile back, when was the last time the conert came up?

Last Thursday when she was very clear with me about needing space. I said to her, 'we have the U2 concert next Saturday. Should I find someone else to go with me?' She responded, 'I don't know. Let's talk about it next week'.

So far, it hasn't come up. That's why I feel like I'm in a blinking contest... who will blink first.

"Are you still up for the U2 concert on (Day), let me know."

There...no more pussyfooting around. No more guessing. No more assumptions or expectations.

If she says no, f-her, invite me.

If she says yes? make the plans and then leave her alone till then.

So you think that I should contact her and ask her if we are still going?

And since you know U2, bite the inside of your cheeck during some of their, Martyr songs. "With or without you." "One" you know...the ones where your going to be looking at her out of the corner of your eye, hoping it somehow breaks down her walls. : )

LOL... I won't Jack.

Thanks.

Denver