"Hey! Got your VM. Thanks for the heads up on the computer virus. I hope that your's is okay."
Was she supposed to respond?
The U2 Concert, this weekend.
While it is BIG BIG BIG in your mind. Is it in hers?
I don't know, neither do you. You make an assumption here, you make an expectation and you lose.
You made these plans awhile back, when was the last time the conert came up?
There can and are a whole slew of reasons she might or might not be bringing it up. All of them are unknown to you...and its tearing you up.
"Are you still up for the U2 concert on (Day), let me know."
There...no more pussyfooting around. No more guessing. No more assumptions or expectations.
If she says no, f-her, invite me.
If she says yes? make the plans and then leave her alone till then.
And since you know U2, bite the inside of your cheeck during some of their, Martyr songs. "With or without you." "One" you know...the ones where your going to be looking at her out of the corner of your eye, hoping it somehow breaks down her walls. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
