I'd minimize having those: I know...but's moments.
They seem to be affecting your days.
"I know....but" = no self control.
3 things:
1 - Did you at least check out that section of the book I recommended? Because I REALLY think it would help you. I'm not saying buy the book, although I think having it would help you immensely.
2 - Stop trying to get her to talk. You want to hear her say everything is ok, that it will be alright and that isn't goingto happen so stop trying to force her into talking. STOP PUSHING HER. This is her timeline not yours you are NOT entitlted to forcing her to forgive or trust you.
3 - Her response isn't as bad as you think it is. She simply said, "she didnt think there was anything else that could be said at this time." You're seeing demons.
I know...but...
I know I shouldn't eat these dozen donuts because I want to lose weight;but they taste soooo yummy!
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
