Yesterday was overall a nice day one of those days truly enjoy wheezy Inge go fairly well and we laugh and play. As mentioned before there was one major issue and one minor one. I made lunch for myself using the pancake frying pan. I didn't think much of it, and put it in the sink to soak. A few hours later my W saw and completely freaked out. I mean she went nuclear. She claimed I knew it was the good pan, and called me every expletive she could think of in the book. I told her it was no problem that I could always wash it right away. This didn't calm her down, then she started criticizing me for not having replaced the scrubbing pad. I told her I thought it was fine, but if she thought it needed to be changed I would. So I started washing while she started On dinner and she said she needed the space to make dinner. I said sure, and walked away to go get on the computer.
After she was done she came by and apologized. I think not letting her bait me, and giving her time to see how crazy her actions were worked. If I would have gotten dragged into it she surely would have used my reaction to make herself the victim and would not have apologized.
The minor issue was that she wanted to play video games with me and threw what seemed to be a mini tantrum. I was a little bothered by this but told her that if she really wanted to play that badly all she has to do is ask nicely. We ended up playing, despite her trying to pretend she didn't want to.
Communication why is it so hard........
Other than that though as I had said I had a great day with her we actually had fun together.
Today I need to do more stuff around the house. Did not get to go swimming so I will do Yoga instead. Say what you want that stuff makes you strong.
