Few rough emails later, she sounds like her again, but still determined to divorce, saying she feels like the problems between us are not fixable. This is so tough! She still oscillates between what looks like severe midlife crisis and just plain old relationship troubles, but is still totally convinced it's not solvable. It hurts a lot. Thank god for my sister, who is already lightly remodeling the place, packing away W's items, etc. Hurts but makes things more livable.
