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Re: I'm still here all these years later BeTheMan #2154869 05/17/11 02:47 PM
Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,024 Ontario , Canada N ninelives Member
ninelives Member N Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,024 Ontario , Canada	This is a grey area. YOu want to tell the truth because that is what you believe in , but you dont want to hurt the kids, at all costs you want to protect them. I have not mentioned to my youngest ever that his mom had an affair with OM and that was one of the reasons why mom and dad are not together. That would really hurt his relationship with his mother. My parents wanted me to tell him the truth but they are just being bitter and not seeing his needs. He loves his mother and respects her. There is NO need to mess with that. The petty side of me though would not like to see him get along with OM, but the logical side of me( it does exist), sees that as being painful for my son as well since OM is going to be around. Who knows for how long, so these are years my son can never buy back so I want them to always be happy for him. His childhood, you cant put a price on it. Just be careful what you say and Protect them ALWAYS. ITs not easy, but you will walk away the better person in the end. 9 BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11

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I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 02:21 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 12:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	iwllbd1	05/01/11 02:11 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 03:02 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Timetotry	05/01/11 03:08 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 10:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:46 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 12:49 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:59 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:29 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 12:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/03/11 03:21 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 04:42 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 04:43 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 05:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 07:24 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 07:35 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:51 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:17 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:12 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/01/11 08:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/01/11 08:50 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/02/11 12:11 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 01:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 09:50 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/03/11 04:52 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/03/11 05:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/03/11 06:08 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 08:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	facingdivorce	05/03/11 08:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 11:29 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 12:50 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/04/11 03:24 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 11:31 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/04/11 12:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 12:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/04/11 12:45 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 02:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 10:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/05/11 12:48 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/05/11 01:22 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/06/11 12:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/06/11 02:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/06/11 11:36 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/07/11 01:16 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/07/11 11:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 12:23 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/08/11 12:30 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 12:45 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 12:48 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 11:12 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 01:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 01:18 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	punchy	05/08/11 01:32 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 01:49 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	punchy	05/08/11 01:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 01:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/08/11 02:51 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 01:10 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~�DG�~	05/09/11 01:26 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 01:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/09/11 02:19 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 02:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/09/11 02:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 06:06 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/09/11 11:33 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 03:16 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 03:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 11:34 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 01:14 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/11/11 01:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 01:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/11/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 07:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/11/11 07:13 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 09:45 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 01:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/12/11 02:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 02:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/12/11 03:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 03:41 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/12/11 04:17 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/12/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/13/11 01:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/12/11 04:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/13/11 05:44 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/13/11 06:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/13/11 09:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/14/11 12:25 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/14/11 12:47 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/14/11 01:57 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/15/11 12:16 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/15/11 05:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/16/11 05:31 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/16/11 05:54 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/17/11 01:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/17/11 02:47 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 02:06 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 01:24 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 09:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 03:35 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 06:44 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	InAPickle	05/18/11 07:27 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 08:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 09:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 09:54 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/21/11 02:05 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 03:01 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 12:57 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 08:37 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	AJM80	05/23/11 01:08 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/23/11 12:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	AJM80	05/24/11 02:30 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/24/11 01:51 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 01:46 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 03:21 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/25/11 04:42 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/25/11 03:37 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 03:48 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 07:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/27/11 02:17 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/27/11 03:01 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:34 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:27 PM

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