When it comes to OW being around S, I can't control it if H isn't going to tell me because it is during his weekends with him.
With the stuff, I have told him no, but since the D is not final yet, I don't want him to renig on stuff that is important to me so I am not getting too harsh. Right now he mostly says he doesn't know if I got everything because he hasn't gone through the boxes. I have not been nice through this, but I haven't told him no yet either, also because what he is asking for is stuff that is technically "his", and in the agreement he has 1 month after the decree to get it all out. Then whatever is left is mine. I am figuring after tomorrow it will all be over and H won't ask for more.
Papers are signed and being filed probably as I type. Now just waiting on the judge. I am praying he just signs it and signs it today, but my L said it could be a couple of days before we know.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
