Islander, I feel so much for you and your SD. It's so hard to feel like you are on the sidelines watching your team implode. And it's maddening to see the S with their head up their... you just want to shake them and ask if they really know how much they are f'ing up so many lives.
OK, deep breath for me Stay strong for yourself and SD. Be the rock and the example for her! It will pay off down the road for both of you.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011