What's to sign? Nothing til you have a L review it. But do you honestly think he'll file AND have an agreement written up all ready for you to sign, soon? I'd bet not. No way...FYI "filing" does NOT include a prepared settlement agreement so don't assume that being served is some huge decision making process. It's not. It's you getting notified that your spouse wants to dissolve the marriage. That's all. The rest is going to be "pending" or worked out under separate agreement. Without children, it's all about property and asset division. NONE of this is something to worry about NOW.
You are over reacting to (fears of) some "big pending R/Div talk" that will be much less than you fear. Maybe Plan for him getting his stuff, and that's all I'd assume at this point, and that's IF he wants his stuff AND has a place for it.
I have a feeling you've used lots of words in the past, so he'll pay little attention to them. You should Expect little to no reaction from him, to what you SAY.
What you have to DO, is an action. So, less talk, more action.
Keep working on getting well. Life is in session, and you don't want to miss anymore of it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
