Tipper, My h sounds very much like yours. He left me and filed for a d the third time. We did not have anything to split up, but I did get a lawyer but never attended any court dates. I always told him it was his divorce and not what I wanted. He came back a year later, begging me to re- marry me. Then he left me again for the fourth time. As much as I wanted him in my life, I have just realized that I wasted a big part of my life waiting for him to wake up. I know a divorce is hard but it really does not make it over sometimes. Just take care of you.Kee
