Originally Posted By: islander

Do you see why this hurts me so much? And there is nothing I can do about it. I am on the sidelines litterally watching my SD self destruct at 9 years old...

We see what happens to kids when they are hurting. We used to talk about this all of the time. How can she be so blind to her own D. It makes me literally sick.



Yes, this is absolutely infuriating!

I can definitely see why you feel the way you do.

Originally Posted By: islander


I can not be a part of this madness anymore. I need to move on. I hope that my W sees the light and joins me. But I don't expect it anymore. And I don't think she will...she is too far gone. If she can abandon her own D, what hope do I have. If she ever does come around, I fear (not really fear anymore, just a realization) I will have already moved on.


I think this is a good way of thinking about it. It's about all you can do.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26