Read your post of saturday the 14th and then today's. Your attitude WAS that you were waking up to how badly he has been treating you. In fact you did not want to live like this again and you did not want him this way...
Fast forward 2 days and he SAYS he's filing and you are in a full blown panic of terror. WHY? B/C he is leaving you?? Oh...well then, that's just your ego talking. Stop panicking and really read your post of Saturday's. Nothing has changed since then. Except he's trying to turn the tables on you. LET HIM.
Let him go, so he can get healthy or not. But you are not going anywhere good if you continue this crazy unhealthy roller coaster. You must hurry to read Co-Dependent No More b/c you are a symbol of codependence AND enabling in a big way.
Do you have a counselor? Please get one. The change in tone of those two posts when the only "event" that happened was his claim to want to file, is so telling. What a great example of his pulling all the strings and you letting him just 48 hours after you SEEM to be "getting it"...and you let your fears insert so much planning and thought into this claim of his, as if he's sober and thoughtful. He's not. He's sick and drunk and manipulative. So, what are you doing DIFFERENTLY THIS TIME???
Don't revert so fast. It's alarming.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
