Mish, staying out late may indeed seem like his old ways and that's scary for you, understandably. The issue I see is that he, like many who've had affairs, doesn't want to deal with it. He wants it all to be OK because he's back now. It's hard when the unfaithful spouse doesn't want to acknowledge the damage done to you or the R. That said, can you live with that? Can you continue to live as Ms. happy, happy, joy, joy when you're not feeling that way? It's a choice and you can choose to do something different but either way it's gonna be scary, so which way do you want your life to be lived?
