I haven't responded and not sure that I should. No reason to really.
I have tickets to see U2 on Saturday. W is suppose to go with me. That is really the only thing that she and I need to talk about.
Suggestions?
Yes. What you have been doing hasn't worked. Time to admit it. Pursuing a woman who doesn't reciprocate seldom if ever works from my own experience or from my observations of observing other men that pursue women who act wishy washy. I have thousands of examples..
That means STOP ALL PURSUIT.. NONE...
Do not call her. Make plans WITHOUT her for the concert.
She JUST finished telling you that she needs space and that she feels pressured and here you are asking others about what you should do about the concert?
Give HER what she asks for.. She wants space...GIVE it to her.. Give LOTS and lots of space to her...
I realize that you secretly want to keep chasing. I realize that you probably want to find an excuse to contact her about the concert, when deep down it is always more than that...
One of the problems with a site like this is that you can almost always find someone who will give you hope or tell you things you want to hear. I am sure there will be others willing to tell you to contact her about the concert. IMHO.. HUGE mistake.. You should IMMEDIATELY make plans without her. That doesn't mean you are a jerk or act rude or nasty or punitive. No such things are needed. What IS needed is for you to leave her alone. When a woman tells you she needs space, a wise man moves on without her and continues on his way. He acts mature.
Matter of fact, the WISE man learns how to "read" a woman BEFORE she has to tell him these types of things. She has been feeling these feelings of pressure for some time. She has finally just now gotten the guts to tell you. Women usually hope you "get the message" with their other subtle hints. Their last resort is to "have" to tell you. They HATE telling men things like that. They would prefer you get the message..
Show her you "got" the message... Give her EXTRA space... Make HER come to you now.
