Thanks Faith. I'm 7 months into the MLC, and 6 weeks since our separation. For the most part I keep moving forward, even though part of me wants to hold on to H and my family. I'm not even sure I want H for myself, maybe more for my kids. I'm trying really hard to shake that feeling, because the rational part of me knows H can't give us what we need....and to let him go. Your words just helped to clarify that moving forward without H is the right direction.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
