I support you doing what makes you happy, for good.
fwiw, yes the idea of her getting a job overseas in a different city, DOES beg the question "then why be married?" Ever ask that question?
Due to your w's age & other factors, "MLC" might not be the term so much as immaturity is. I don't mean to insult her by saying that, but it's really the least objectionable way of saying it. And MLC just doesn't fit at her age, with these issues. But no matter, your approach is the same and you're learning a lot I think. GB, If you truly know your choices are not fear driven, then I wish you all the best.
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016