Positively moving forward

[awest1217]

Thanks K. The times I am doing well is when I think about how I am about to be done with all the loose ends, and can move on. I am mostly excited about getting to go out on a date. Nothing serious, but just an opportunity to be taken out by a guy sounds like fun. I already go out with my girlfriends once a month or once every couple months as time permits.

My problem is I am trying to communicate with H, but he won't. I am trying to tie up loose ends, but he won't. He wants to just keep asking for more and more even though I have asked for months previously to get this done. As for OW, we both agreed to let the other know when significant others would be a larger part of S's life, but he won't do it. I guess that means when S starts being around someone for me and I don't tell him he can't get mad. Not that I would do that because being the better person is important to me, but I could.