The year of not my problem

[AJM]

Journaling:
And so it continues...
Email bullying from stbx. Doesn't have to be that way, but the emotions are pretty high on her end. I feel much more dispassionate. That's been a long time coming for me and I suspect that it will continue as she gets further past her graduation (lower stress) and continues some of her changes. I feel for her boyfriend, but not very much

The term I was trying to remember before was emotional generosity. The idea is that if you are emotionally stable and happy, you have and show more emotional generosity. If you are unhappy, you have no emotional generosity to allow you to give anything to anyone.
The describes my stbx to a "T". For me, it was very painful to live through. To others it is just interesting and annoying.

The latest? I've sent the revisions to the lawyer. In the meantime, the stbx decided to show her head. Wants me to pay for my son's ortho. I told her I need to confirm later that I can to which she became very accusatory and bullying in her tone. She responded by copying the two lawyers; that's not a very good idea. But it's also a cue to me to stop talking which is why I'm venting here.

I'm annoyed by the bullying. I'm dead tired of it. I know it won't stop. So I vent here.

Later,

AJ