H texted me, told me D was gonna be mad at him. That I would probably hear it when he brought them home.
I asked (texted) why? Said she ate some candy after he told her not too. They were gonna have to wait till after supper.
My daugher ate it anyway...they were driving in his truck. He got mad, slammed on brakes, OW in front seat got mad because my daughter disobeyed. Ow commented to my d that if it were up to her she wouldnt be going to no military ball next weekend and that she needed to f**king learn to listen to her daddy.
My daughter told me this after her dad dropped them off...before he could get out of my driveway, I was out the door! I stopped him and told him as calm as I could (and my heart was racing!!) that he needed to let his gf know that she will NOT talk to my 10 and 14 year old using that kind of language and that her two cents doesnt matter when it comes to our kids!!!
I was SO MAD! I told him that we have never talked to our kids that way and I was not gonna allow any adult to talk to them that way! She had no right and he LET her talk to them that way and didnt say a thing!!
He knew I was angry. I told him that I would let him handle the sitch this first time, but if it happened again, I would handle it my way!
Of course he tried to defend gf that she was just mad too and didnt like our kids acting that way.
Ok, they are kids you know...I try to pick my battles with them...she ate the candy after you told her not too, well no supper then....what happened was uncalled for.
So, he told me he would talk to gf about it. This morning I asked if he handle it...he said no, but he would.
Right.
I asked when?
He said "asap"
I said "today"
he said sure.
Not sure I believe he will say anything about it and I told him that.
He said he would tell her.
I dont think he will, or he would have last night.
He's a chicken...letting some foul mouth woman talk to our kids however she wishes.
I wont stand for it.
There my kids too.
I know I cant protect them from everything, but I will try my best to make sure they are happy and not being talked to in a disrespectful manner.
UGH....just had to vent!!
So, what do I do? Did I handle it badly??
Do I just assume he will tell her?? I dont want my kids around her at all, and this just seems like a bad start to things to come....its not the first time she has gotten ugly with them either...
I hate this. I hate having to even deal with this kind of stuff!
How can my H be with someone SO different than me?? SOmeone so foul mouth to children???
Yep...still mad
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
