What exactly deprives you of your "rights" in relation to Gabe? The fact you are not married anymore? What about the fact that you live together, have a child together, make love, tell each other you love each other (if I am not mistaken, etc etc?
Mish, even with a boyfriend of a month relatioship you would be able to express yourself freely. It's all in your head. *Smack* (seeing any clearer now?) xxx K