Sigh... she saw that I moved money out of shared accounts and freaked out, wondering why I was acting like I didn't trust her. I wrote a very measured response asking her to look at her actions from my point of view and to please understand that when she ambushed me with a walkout saying "I want to hurt you so badly you WANT me to leave", it did in fact make me want to protect myself, but that I understood she was in a scary transition.
Sigh... she surrounds herself with people who validate her desire for divorce and demonize me, ignores our mutual friends who ask why she is acting this way, and continues to proceed on this path. I'm doing really well all things considered, but this one made me cry again. Glad my sister's here for support.
