When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[kat727]

But you don't want these things to fester. You need to figure out how you want things to be and work towards that. It won't be an overnight process but you will feel so much better once you get going. You are going to need to express your feelings at some point. Not in an accusatory way but let him know that it sets off feelings and memories of the past. Let him reassure you, don't assume all the work is yours. Do this together.

Kat