Denver,

You're welcome, I hope it helps...

Ok the head heart thing...

Islander explained it very well...

Here's an example...

You meet a gorgeous woman...

Could be interested...

BUT you are married...

You don't pursue it...

No feelings grow...

Make sense?

I like 25's 72 hour plan...

Try it...

Denver, it isn't just about being patient with or for your W, you have to be patient with yourself as well...

This isn't gonna happen overnight...

One other thought and then I'm going to bed...

When your W was spending all of that time with you...

It sounds like you became very involved with the R again and let your GAL stuff go...

A good relationship, consists of two independent people who share common goals, dreams, interests...

People who have and pursue those things together and their own stuff separatly and support each other in that...

A balance has to occur...

People who spend every possible second together...

Smother each other eventually...

Doesn't make for a very healthy situation...

Balance...very important...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox