What if my W just showed up and said she wanted to come home and work on our M. What would I do??
I have thought about this too islander. Truth is, it IS a scary thought. As much as we are working to get them back, the thought of it ever actually happening can be daunting. Then what?
One thing I have also thought about though, think how scary if would be for HER. Think of what they would have to face.
I of course cannot mind read, but I am pretty sure, that IF my W ever reconsidered, she would be scared to death to come home. To look at me and ask forgiveness for what she has done.
That is why our changes have to be real AND consistent. We HAVE to SHOW them, that IF they ever reconsider, we have changed, we can forgive, and life with us would be better than without.
One of 25's quotes really sticks out with me. She has said "Keep the road home paved smooth." (I may have misquoted this, but you get the idea)
I can see just how important this is.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
