Update...

I have not spoken with W since my last conversation with her on Thursday... the one where she was very clear about needing space. I have not attempted to initiate contact, nor has she.

W had an out of town, overnight, show on Saturday night. And then has another show tonight. I do not know if OM is/was scheduled to be on either show, but again, he is only on a small percentage of these shows.

I do know who W traveled to her out of town show with and it was not OM.

I contacted SS last night just to see how he was doing. He has been with his grandmother all weekend.

So... 3 full days of no contact with W... after almost 3 full months of talking at least once every single day.

Odd how this affects me so much and does not appear to affect W at all.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce