I don't know if that's what "acting as if" means...to me, acting as if sometimes means that you are accepting his choice and acting as if you are resigned to it but looking forward to YOUR new future and being upbeat and moving on, and sure, you wish things between you had worked out but mainly b/c it's HIS loss, not so much yours...

Maybe a moderator can chime in. I do know acting as if includes a good attitude, even if you are "ACTING" the whole time, as in Oscar worthy. Make sense? I may go look it up again.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change